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March 2021

New Song of the Week 3-31-21

I know, I know… it’s the second week in a row that I’m featuring a Country song, but this one is gonna be a Summer bar anthem in every college town.  Travis Denning is an up and coming Country artist with a #1 hit under his belt with “After a Few”, and I’m thinking this new song “ABBY” (Anybody But You) is going to follow suit.

It’s not a song to be taken too seriously- just a fun, radio-friendly party song that a lot of people can relate to.  Also, I got a chance to chat with Travis earlier this week, and he’s an absolute doll. Be on the lookout for the full interview on Friday!

If you have a song you think needs some love and some airplay, let me know! I’m always on the lookout for great new stuff.

 

Don’t Be a Joy Thief

A few years ago, I bought my horse Angel.  I was SO excited to be able to get back into horses- which was my passion growing up and into my early twenties.  BR Angelina Gold was my “dream horse”- a golden palomino Arabian cross, who through a strange twist of fate ended up in my life.  I was overjoyed when she arrived, and here are some of the things people said to me: “Why didn’t you get a Quarter Horse?” (Because I wanted an Arabian)  “Well, she’s small, isn’t she?” (Well, she’s an Arabian, so yeah)  “Why did you buy an Arabian? They’re crazy!” (Because I love them, and they’re my favorite)  and “Why didn’t you buy a Friesian?” (Maybe because I don’t have an extra 45 grand to drop on a horse? Hm….)

My point is, having Angel come into my life was such a joyful moment for me, and when I shared my news with others, I got a lot of negative feedback and comments from friends.  FRIENDS!  And I never even asked for anyone’s opinion.  I just wanted to share my happy news. Why is it that so few people can say, “Hey! Good for you. That’s awesome!” when someone shares something big?  Why does there have to be any comments at all?  Things like that can chip away at someone’s happiness.   And it’s not just in this particular situation, it’s happened on almost every happy occasion in my life, there always has to be a few people to be snide or say something hurtful as if they almost want to dim that glow of happiness.  Thankfully, I’ve learned to ignore it, but still… how strange is it that people tend to say things (unwittingly or not) that can put a dent in one’s excitement?  Why can’t we just clap for the other person?  Even if you don’t agree or if it’s not what you would choose to do with your life, what’s it to you?

Happiness is hard to come by. If anyone can find something in life that makes their heart swell and makes their life worth living- be it knitting or comic books or figure skating or collecting salt and pepper shakers- then you should be happy for them.  Because guess what? It’s not about you.  If we could all get that in our heads and realize not everyone is going to be just like you, think like you, live like you, believe like you, vote like you, etc… and actually be OK with those facts…perhaps the world would be a better place. If we can try to fix ourselves instead of “fixing” others, and concern ourselves with our own lives, maybe we could be better for it.  And for anyone dealing with those negative people in your life- and we ALL have them- remember: people who aren’t nice to you is not a reflection of you, but them.  Anyone who feels the need to rain on someone’s parade, no matter how small that parade may be, has some serious issues with themselves that they are struggling with.  Don’t let them project their unhappiness onto you.  Keep doing you and what you love and be who you are regardless of what others say.  I know I said this in a prior blog, but the point remains… it’s YOUR life, so live it how YOU choose.

 

Basically, clap for others, and if you have something salty to say, keep it to yourself, unless your opinion is specifically asked for.

That’s all. Easy peasy. Now go forth and don’t be a jackwagon! You got this.

 

 

New Song of the Week 3-22

Darius Rucker is just one of the coolest dudes… who else can claim fame in one of the most iconic 90’s bands (Hootie and the Blowfish) and then just randomly pop up on the Country Music scene in the late 2000’s and just become a permanent fixture in that genre as well?  That’s easy.  NOBODY.

And what’s cool is, Darius has continued these past 14 years to put out great, radio friendly Country music that is easy to listen to and relate to (and doesn’t mention getting blitzed on Fireball while making your girl with her cutoff jeans and tan legs give you a lap dance while getting a beer, which is a rarity these days) and his latest single “My Masterpiece” continues his hot streak.

 

I spoke to Darius today (Not even joking.  I’m still in shock) and he says the new album is due out by the end of this Summer, and if his last two singles – this one, and his latest #1 “Beers and Sunshine” are any indication, it’s gonna be another great effort by Darius.

Country Music is lucky to have him.

 

Stay tuned for my interview with him out later this week!

New Song of the Week 3-15

When Dua Lipa first came on the scene, I was like “Meh. Ok.” But man, this past year she has been on FIRE!  She has been steadily putting out disco infused pop that’s both fun and radio friendly (Sorry Cardi B. I just can’t) and I am so here for it.

Her latest “We’re Good” is a bit slower than what she’s been putting out, and it proves that she’s just not a dance diva.  I especially love that it’s a break up song that’s not rude or salty or hateful to the other party.  She’s just like, hey, we didn’t work out. Bye, Have a great life. No muss, no fuss.  No social media drama or insult flinging, just a mature way of saying, “Hey, you’re not the right one. Doesn’t mean you suck.” I wish we could deal with so many life issues this way.

 

Dua Lipa is quickly becoming one of my favorite modern pop artists.  Definitely need more of her!

 

Also, the video is pretty cool. I’m never eating lobster again.

The Advice Not Taken

Looking back on the past 38 years, all the things that happened, all the paths taken and the ones bypassed, I often wonder how I got here.  So many random twists and turns have led to right now, which I’m going to be honest, is a really good spot. And a lot of the best things that have happened to me is because I am really good at is ignoring well-meaning advice.   It’s part of the human condition: people LOVE to tell others what they should do and how they should go about it because that’s what they themselves would do.  We like to project ourselves, our beliefs, our likes and tastes onto others, perhaps in a way to validate ourselves?  I’m not sure, but it seems that it’s something we humans like to do.  Ever since I can remember, for the most part, I would smile and nod, and go about my merry way and do what I felt like doing.  And you know what?  Some of the best things in my life are the product of decisions I made where I didn’t take the “good” advice.

#1: My Career Choice: Ever since I was four years old (I kid you not) I wanted to be a radio host.  So when I got to college, I majored in Communications. I remember my advisor telling me NOT to get into radio as it was a dying industry and I would never go anywhere.  I was 17 years old, and I remember looking at him and thinking “Watch me, bro.”

21 years later I’m still on the air and still loving it.  Had I listened to him, like many teenagers would have, what would I be doing? Maybe I’d be happy, but there’s something pretty rad about realizing a childhood dream.

 

#2: Dropping Out of College:  Perhaps if I had made a better choice for my university, I would have stayed the course.  As it turns out, the Summer after my Junior year, I got my first full-time radio job at 20 years old.  It was a huge opportunity, and I’d have been a moron to pass it up. Problem was, when the Fall semester of what would have been my Senior year started up, I had to schedule classes around my full-time job.  I spoke to the advisors, and no one wanted to help. The one class I needed- another Spanish class to meet my language requirements- was only offered in the Fall and was full. They refused to make room for me or let me independent study (even though I was a good student), AND they wanted me to intern at a competing station without pay to fulfill my internship and Senior Project requirements. Because THAT makes sense. I spoke to the Dean and he was like, “Sorry, rules are rules”. So I broke a rule of my own. I dropped out and never looked back.  I remember a lot of people told me I was making a massive mistake (except for my parents, who stood behind me) and some people still recoil in horror when I tell them I never finished college, but guess what?  Never needed to. Now, if all of a sudden radio stations started saying, “Hey Meg, you need a Bachelors and a Masters to do what you’re already doing” then sure, maybe I would.  But in the meantime, I’m just glad I got out of that school and took the amazing opportunity that ended up setting me up for life in my dream career.  Sorry not sorry, Lambuth University.

Oh wait, you don’t exist anymore, do you? Shocker.

 

#3: My Husband: I met my husband when I was 22. I was working at 98.1 the Max in Memphis, and he was a college kid on the remote crew. Basically, he would set up the live broadcasts that I would be the DJ at, drive the vehicle, etc.  We were just friends, as I was with the whole crew because we were all in the same age group, and we all liked booze. That’s all it really takes in your early twenties to make friends, right?  Eventually JB and I started toying with the idea of being more than friends, which pretty much EVERYONE (again, except for my parents) thought was a terrible idea. On paper, I totally see why. We had recently dated each other’s friends, which of course, is extremely awkward. JB was also in ROTC, meaning that when he graduated a few months later, he’d be Active Duty Army and all that that entails. Plus, JB had a reputation as a “ladies man”- which he denies. He says he was simply a “serial monogamist”… so yeah, you see all those red flags flying, right?

Again, I went with my heart, married him the next year.  I remember people taking bets on how long we would last at our wedding.  I hope you guys didn’t bet too much…

It’s been almost 14 years, and I cannot imagine a better human to spend my life with. What if I had listened to everyone else?  Woah. Potential bullets dodged.

 

Those are a few big examples of ignoring the “good” advice.

On a smaller scale, I remember all the advice thrown at me for smaller decisions, like “Don’t buy a sports car!!!” (Why? You don’t like awesome?) “Don’t wait too long to have kids!” (Um, not my call baby doll. Also, never say this to someone. Ever.) “Don’t get a Husky. They’re crazyyyy!”- that was from pretty much every dog person I knew when I was searching for a dog after our Great Dane passed.  I didn’t listen, and I have the best Husky on the planet who likes to make a habit of randomly showing up on tv with his antics. Maybe had I bought a GoldenDoodle that never would have happened. Or “Don’t get an Arabian- they’re stupid!” while horse shopping.  Cool. I have two now.  #noregrets

Also, “The Bachelor”, “Twilight”, “Fifty Shades of Grey” are all crap.  I can’t tell you how many friends told me to give it a chance. Totally should have listened to my gut there.

You see?  Bad things happen when you ignore your instincts.

 

The main thing is, it’s YOUR life. So many people will tell you how to live it. But guess what? THEY don’t deal with the consequences, but YOU have to.  If you want to be a circus performer and wear tutus to the grocery store, then DO IT.  If tax law is your thing and Brooks Brothers is your crack, go for it.  Don’t let anyone stand in the way of what your heart truly wants. Unless it’s to be an ax murderer, and then that’s a whole different issue.

You get one shot, and you might as well do it your way.  There will always be someone telling you what they think you should do. Smile, nod, say thanks, and go the other way.  Just keep being you, and trusting your instincts.  You won’t go wrong.  And when you look back like I am right now, it gives you even more to smile about.

 

 

 

New Song of The Week 3-8

So, a few weeks ago, I had mentioned on air that I really wanted new Bruno Mars. He’s definitely up there as one of my favorite contemporary artists.  Well, a few days after I said that, I found out that Bruno Mars has teamed up with the crazy talented Anderson Paak (who also has one of the best smiles EVER) for a project called “Silk Sonic”.  That got me all excited, and when they dropped the first single this past Friday, I was NOT disappointed in the least.

“Leave the Door Open” is a great mix of old school R&B, Motown, and modern sounds.  It’s got swag and of course, amazing vocals from Bruno Mars who is one of the best out there.  It was one of those songs that I was all about as soon as I heard it.  I want more of this on the music scene, and I can’t wait for their full album.  I’m really excited to hear more!

 

Sorry, kids. This beats “WAP” all day long.

 

 

New Song of the Week 3-1-21

I love Miranda Lambert. I love Elle King. So… yeah, suffice it to say I was pretty jazzed when I heard they were collabing.

“Drunk” is a fun, upbeat song that reminds me of me in my early twenties when I was a hot mess express who thought Jager was a food group.  (Turns out, it’s not. Huh.)  It’s just a fun Pop-Country Bop that we need right now!

 

Plus, Miranda Lambert is a freaking QUEEN. That’s all.